The chastity kink is a sexual fetish in which the individual derives sexual pleasure from abstaining from sex or being prevented from achieving sexual satisfaction. This can take the form of physical restraint, such as being locked in a chastity belt, or psychological restraint, such as celibacy.
For some people, the appeal of chastity lies in the denial of sexual pleasure, while for others it lies in the challenge of overcoming temptation.
Chastity can be used as a form of power play in BDSM relationships, with the dominant partner controlling the submissive’s sexual activity. It can also be enjoyed as an independent kink.
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There are a number of different ways to enjoy chastity play. For some, it is the challenge of remaining chaste that is arousing, while for others it is the control that they exert over their partner’s sexual pleasure. Still others find the teasing and denial involved in chastity play to be a turn-on.
Chastity play can involve a number of different activities, from wearing a chastity belt or device to refraining from sexual activity altogether.
It is important to discuss all aspects of chastity play with your partner before getting started, as there needs to be a clear understanding of what each person wants and expects from the experience.
How to get started with chastity play
If you are interested in trying chastity, there are a few things you will need to do in order to get started.
First, you will need to find a chastity device that is right for you. There are many different types of chastity devices available on the market, so it is important to take the time to find one that is comfortable and secure.
You will also need to find a keyholder who will be responsible for keeping the key to your device. The holder will be the only person who has access to the key, so it is important to choose someone you trust.
Once you have all of these things in place, you can start exploring chastity with your partner.
Exciting and satisfying experience
Chastity can be a very exciting and satisfying experience for both partners. It can add a new level of excitement to your sex life and help you explore new facets of your sexuality. F
or some people, the appeal of chastity is the added element of control. When you’re in charge of someone’s sexual pleasure, it can be a huge turn-on.
Chastity can also be a way to heighten the anticipation and pleasure of sex. By prolonging the buildup to intercourse, you can make the experience even more intense.
And because it requires a high level of trust, chastity can also be a way to deepen the emotional connection with your partner.
Chastity devices available for women
There are a number of different types of chastity devices available for women. The most popular and well-known type is the chastity belt. These belts are usually made from metal or leather and fit around the waist, covering the genital area.
They typically have a small hole in the front for urination, and some also have a small opening in the back for bowel movements. Chastity belts can be very uncomfortable to wear, particularly for extended periods of time, and can cause skin irritation.
These are similar to chastity belts but instead of fitting around the waist, they fit around the entire pelvic area. They typically have a small hole in the front for urination, and some also have a small opening in the back for bowel movements. Chastity cages can be very uncomfortable to wear, particularly for extended periods of time, and can cause skin irritation.
Chastity devices with spikes
These devices usually have spikes or other sharp objects that protrude from the inside surface, making them extremely painful to wear. They are designed to deter the wearer from engaging in sexual activity.
Chastity devices with shockers
These devices deliver an electric shock to the wearer whenever they attempt to engage in sexual activity. They are designed to deter the wearer from engaging in sexual activity.
Common side effects of wearing any type of chastity device
Chaffing and skin irritation are common side effects of wearing any type of chastity device. To help alleviate these issues, consider investing in a high-quality device made from medical grade materials. You’ll also want to make sure the device is properly sized to your unique body shape.
When choosing a chastity device, it’s important to select one that will be comfortable to wear for long periods of time. This means taking into account factors such as the weight and bulk of the device, as well as its adjustability.
Chastity devices available for men
There are two types of chastity devices: the belt and the cage which comes from different sizes and designs, available made of Wide variety of materials such as plastic, silicon and steel.
Male chastity belt
The belt is the most common type of chastity device. It is a strap that goes around the waist and is secured in place with a lock. The belt prevents the wearer from being able to touch their genitals.
Male chastity cage
The cage is a less common type of chastity device. It is a metal or plastic enclosure that goes over the penis and is secured in place with a lock. The cage prevents the wearer from being able to get an erection.
Both types of chastity devices can be worn for long periods of time, but the cage is more likely to cause discomfort than the belt.
How to find a keyholder?
One of the most common questions we get asked is how to find a keyholder for chastity kink. The answer isn’t always simple, as there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. However, there are a few avenues you can explore to try and find someone suitable.
Find a chastity keyholder online
The first place to start is online. There are many forums and websites dedicated to BDSM and kink dating in general, and many of them will have sections specifically for discussion about chastity play.
This can be a great way to meet people with similar interests, and potentially find a keyholder who is willing to take on the responsibility.
Local BDSM or kink events
Another option is to attend local BDSM or kink events. These can be anything from meetups to larger parties or conventions. Again, this is a great way to meet like-minded people and potentially find someone willing to take on the role of keyholder.
Other ways to find a holder for chastity key
Of course, it’s not always possible to find a keyholder through these methods. In that case, you may need to get creative.
Perhaps there’s someone in your life who you trust implicitly and who you know would be up for trying something new. Talk to them about your interests and see if they’re open to the idea of being your keyholder.
Enforced Male Chastity
The concept of enforced male chastity can be a thrilling idea for some individuals in the BDSM community who identify as submissives. The surrender of control over sexual desires to a dominant partner can be an exhilarating experience that enhances their feelings of submission and subservience.
Enforced chastity can also provide a sense of structure and order to the submissive’s sexual desires, allowing to fulfill their needs within the parameters set by their dominant partner.
The idea of not being able to orgasm without permission from the Goddess can serve as a constant reminder of their submission and reinforces power dynamic within the relationship.
Whatever route you decide to take, remember that communication is key. Be upfront about your desires and expectations, and make sure both you and your potential keyholder are on the same page before taking things any further.
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This post is a great beginner’s guide to chastity play. It covers all the basics and gives some great tips for getting started.
I’m definitely going to try out some of these chastity games with my partner. Thanks for the great post!