- 1 What is a bondage fetish?
- 2 What are some popular bondage fetishes?
- 3 Why do people have bondage fetishes?
- 4 Here are a few of the most popular fetishes
- 5 Learn more about fetishes
- 6 How to dating partner who is into fetishes?
- 7 How to find a date who is interested in fetishes?
- 8 Here are a few things to keep in mind when dating someone with a fetish
Welcome to the world of fetishes! A fetish is an interest or fixation on something that may be considered abnormal by others.
However, what one person considers a fetish may be completely normal to another. There are no set rules when it comes to fetishes – if it gets you going, then it’s a good fetish!
But have you ever wondered what are all of those fetishes and how to date a partner who is into fetish such as bondage or BDSM and how to find kinky date?
What is a bondage fetish?
Bondage fetishism is a sexual fetish involving the voluntary restraint of one or more individuals. The restrained individual may derive sexual pleasure from the situation, or the act of restraining itself.
Bondage fetishes are sexual fantasies involving the act of restraining or being restrained. Bondage can involve handcuffs, rope, blindfolds, and other props to create a heightened sense of anticipation and sexual pleasure.
People with bondage fetishes often enjoy the feeling of being helpless and at the mercy of their partner. They may also enjoy the visual aspect of seeing their partner bound and/or gagged.
What are some popular bondage fetishes?
There are many different types of bondage fetishes, including but not limited to: rope bondage, handcuff bondage, shibari/kinbaku (Japanese rope bondage), straitjacket bondage, and seatbelt bondage etc., I have even heard about shoe lace bondage, and know plenty of subs how are into ziptie bondage!
The most common type of bondage fetish is handcuffs. Many people find the idea of being unable to escape or move very erotic. You may want to try to tie yourself or your partner at least on the bed with cuffs! Sure, you have seen those cute furry handcuffs?
Another popular type of bondage is rope play. Rope bondage is one of the most popular types of bondage, and it can be used for a variety of different purposes. You may want to learn more about what is a rope bunny!
Shibari is a Japanese word that refers to the art of decorative rope binding. Kinbaku is a related term that refers to the erotic aspect of this type of bondage. People who have a Shibari/Kinbaku fetish enjoy the aesthetics of beautifully-tied ropes and the sensual experience of being bound in them. Both are quite complex, and it may be very interesting hobby to learn to tie or be tied such a thrilling ways!
Why do people have bondage fetishes?
People may have bondage fetishes for many different reasons. Some people find the sensation of being restrained to be erotic and exciting, while others enjoy the sense of power and control that comes with being the one doing the restraining. Whatever the reason, bondage is a popular fetish for many people.
Here are a few of the most popular fetishes
Receiving pain through spanking, whipping, or other means. Plenty of subs find it very thrilling and enjoyable being spanked or punished my their Dominatrix!
Acting out different power dynamics, such as teacher/student, boss/employee, or prisoner play etc., create fantastic setting for kinky moments.
Forcing a man to dress and act like a woman. In reality, of course it’s consensual, but plenty of subs want to be “forced” to wear for example French Maid costume with high heels.
This is probably one of the most common fetishes around. People who have a foot fetish are often attracted to the shape and size of feet, as well as the way they look in certain shoes or socks. Some people enjoy kissing, licking or massaging feet, while others simply like to smell them.
For some people, there is nothing better than a good spanking! This fetish involves the act of spanking someone for sexual gratification. It can be done with the hand, a paddle, a belt or anything else that can deliver a good whack!
Voyeurs are people who get pleasure from watching others engage in sexual activities, often without their knowledge or consent. While it might not sound like the most consensual of fetishes, many voyeurs take great care to ensure that their victims are genuinely enjoying themselves before they get their kicks. It’s important to note, that no such things should be done secretly.
Exhibitionism is the act of exposing oneself sexually to others in public. This can be done through flashing or public sex acts. Remember, that you can’t do such a things for people who don’t agree on such a setting beforehand – otherwise you may be in a big trouble.
Fetish for body fluids
Some people are turned on by bodily fluids such as sweat, blood, saliva, or urine. They may enjoy activities such as kissing, licking, or smelling these fluids.
Food play involves using food during sex or foreplay. This can involve anything from licking honey off your partner’s body to squirting whipped cream into their mouth. Foot fetishes are very common among both men and women.
Making someone engage in sexual activities with a person of the same sex.
There are literally thousands of different fetishes out there, so hopefully this list we’ve compiled a list of the most popular ones helps you discover more about fetishes.
Learn more about fetishes
We have put together The Big List of Kinks and Fetishes with Explanations to help you to get the good idea about what fetishes there are!
How to dating partner who is into fetishes?
Do you have a dating partner who is into fetishes? If so, then you may be wondering what to expect from them in the bedroom.
There’s nothing wrong with having a few kinks and fetishes. In fact, it can actually make your sex life more exciting! However, when you’re dating someone who is into fetishes, things can get a little bit… interesting.
While it is true that each person is different, there are some general things that you can expect from a partner who is into fetishes. For example, they may be more open to trying new things in the bedroom. They may also be more willing to experiment with different types of sexual activities.
Of course, it is important to remember that not all fetishes are created equal. Some people may be interested in specific types of activities, while others may be open to anything that turns them on.
How to find a date who is interested in fetishes?
Do you have a fetish that you would like to explore with a partner? Maybe you’re interested in BDSM or role-playing. Whatever your kink may be, finding a date who is interested in fetishes can be a challenge.
Here are a few tips on how to find a date who is into fetishes:
Check out online dating sites that cater to those with specific interests
There are a number of websites that cater to people with specific interests and fetishes. This can be a great way to connect with someone who shares your interests.
Good examples of fetish dating sites:
Attend fetish events
There are often fetish events held in various cities around the world. These can be a great way to meet someone who is interested in fetishes.
Join a fetish community
There are many online communities that cater to those with specific interests. This can be a great way to connect with someone who shares your interests. These can be found from Reddit or other sites such as Fetlife.
Talk to your friends and family
If you know anyone who is into fetishes, they may be able to introduce you to someone who is also interested. However, many of us are not comfortable to talk about such things with family members or friends… It may be a good idea to test waters, before revealing that you are into… some very strange kinks!
Be open and honest about your interests
When you are meeting someone new, it is important to be open and honest about your interests. This will help to ensure that you are compatible with each other.
Here are a few things to keep in mind when dating someone with a fetish
Don’t be judgmental. Just because someone is into something that you’re not into doesn’t mean they’re weird or perverted. They just have different tastes!
Again, just because someone is into something that you’re not doesn’t mean you should write them off completely. Who knows, you might end up enjoying it!
It can be easy to judge someone for their fetishes, but remember that everyone is different and has different turn-ons. Just because something isn’t your thing doesn’t mean it’s wrong or bad.
So, if you’re not sure what your partner’s particular fetish is, it can be tough to know how to make things work.
Talk about it!
The first step is always communication. You need to be able to talk about what you’re both into, and figure out a way to make it work for both of you.
This goes both ways – respect your partner’s wishes and boundaries, and don’t do anything they’re not comfortable with. At the same time, expect them to respect your limits as well.
Be willing to experiment
If you’re both open to it, trying new things can be a lot of fun. You might be surprised at what you end up enjoying!
I’m not only bi and Princess but also Dominatrix and Findom. I love writing and I’m deep into BDSM, bondage, dominance, and submission, and of course into plenty of fetishes. I started SMCult.com, a BDSM & Fetish & Fimdom blog to share my experiences and information as I wish to push people to discover their real identity and sexuality, plus put like-minded people together through various dating avenues as it’s my biz. Post your thoughts about this post below, and don’t hesitate to connect with me through my channels, but don’t expect getting an answer unless you send me also a tribute. 💗💗💗💗💗