We all know the basics of fingering: insert fingers into the vagina and move them around in a circle or in and out. But if you want to up your finger game, there’s a little more you can do to please your partner.
Ever wonder how to properly finger a woman? Well, you’re in luck! In this blog post, I’ll give you all the tips and tricks you need to know in order to deliver maximum satisfaction. After all, there’s nothing worse than a half-assed job, am I right?
So without further ado, let’s get started.
Foreplay is key
You can’t just go in there guns blazing and expect her to be ready for you. Take your time and build up the tension. Make her wait for it. Trust me, it’ll be worth it in the end.
Once you’re finally ready to make your move, take it slow at first. Gently insert your finger into her and get a feel for things. pay attention to her body language and what she’s enjoying. This is a two way street, after all.
Find her G-spot
The G-spot is located about 2-3 inches inside the vagina, on the front wall, about two-three inches inside.. To stimulate the G-spot, insert your fingers into the vagina and curl them in a “come hither” motion. You should feel a ridge of tissue that may feel slightly rougher than the rest of the vaginal wall and is often described as feeling like the letter “C”.
Apply firm pressure with your fingers and continue moving them in a come hither motion until your partner feels the need to urinate (this is normal!) or experiences orgasm.
Add some clitoral stimulation
Another way to pleasure your partner is to stimulate her clitoris. This is optional but can often lead to more intense orgasms. The clitoris is located at the top of the vulva, near where the inner labia meet. It’s often covered by a fleshy hood, which can be pulled back to reveal the glans (or tip) of the clitoris.
To stimulate the clitoris, use your fingers to rub it in a circular or side-to-side motion. Experiment with different pressures and speeds to see what your partner enjoys.Use your other hand to rub her clit while you’re going to town on her G-spot with your fingers. Experiment with different techniques until you find something she enjoys.
Finger bang away
Now that you know where everything is, you can really start putting some effort into it! Use different strokes and speeds until you find something she responds well too. Remember, communication is key!
Add bullet vibe
Inserting a small bullet vibrator along with your fingers can often lead to even more intense orgasms for her. Just make sure she’s okay with it before trying anything new!
Consider anal play
If she’s enjoying having her G-spot stimulated, she might be open to trying anal play as well. Again, communication is key here! Never try anything without getting explicit consent first.
If anal play is something she enjoys, using a condom on your finger(s) can make clean up much easier afterwards!
The Dos and Don’ts of Fingering
Fingering can be a fun and pleasurable way to explore your body, or your partner’s body. But as with anything else, there are right ways and wrong ways to do it. Here are some dos and don’ts to help you make the most of your fingering adventures.
Do use lube
No matter how aroused you are, your fingers are not self-lubricating. And while some people produce more natural lubricant than others, it’s always a good idea to use lube when fingering yourself or someone else. Lube can make everything feel better for both partners involved so don’t be afraid to use it generously! It will make the whole experience more enjoyable.
Don’t just use one finger
When you’re first starting out, you may want to stick with one finger. But as you get more comfortable, you can (and should) add more fingers into the mix. This will add new dimensions of pleasure for both you and your partner.
Do experiment with different strokes and speeds
Just because you find one stroke or speed that feels good doesn’t mean you should stick with it forever. Experimentation is key to keeping things interesting.
Try different strokes (up-and-down, side-to-side, circles, etc.) and different speeds (slow and sensual or fast and hard). You may be surprised at what you like.
Don’t neglect the clitoris
The clitoris is often referred to as the “holy grail” of female pleasure, and for good reason. It contains more nerve endings than any other part of the female anatomy, so it’s no wonder that so many women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.
When fingering a woman, be sure to spend some time on her clitoris. A little goes a long way when it comes to this sensitive spot.
Fingering can be a great way to explore your sexuality and give yourself or your partner some extra pleasure. But as with anything else, there is a right way and a wrong way to do it.
By following the dos and avoiding the don’ts listed above, you can make sure that your fingering adventures are fun, safe, and pleasurable for everyone involved.
Have fun with it! Fingering doesn’t have to be a chore, so try out different techniques and find what works best for both of you! Be present in the moment and enjoy yourselves!
There you have it folks! A few easy steps on how to finger your partner the right way! Just remember that communication is key and always have fun with it! Happy fingering!
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